Relationship coaching for people creating relationships that don’t follow the default script.
Hey, I’m Jasmin.
I offer trauma-informed, non-judgmental relationship coaching for people who want to build relationships that feel honest, consensual, and sustainable — even when those relationships don’t fit cultural norms.
I live this work every day within an intergenerational community, and through my own ethically non-monogamous relationships — alongside a trauma-informed, IFS-based coaching approach.
My role isn’t to tell you what to do, but to offer grounded support as you navigate what’s true for you.
“The benefits I have received from my work with Jasmin genuinely cannot be quantified. Working with her has been one of the best decisions I have ever made.”
Benjamin
When the relationships you want don’t match the scripts around you…
Many people reach out when they realize they want forms of love, honesty, or connection that aren’t widely modeled where they live — whether that means reworking a relationship, questioning identity, or letting go of old expectations.
Even when these desires feel deeply right, navigating them without much relational support can be disorienting. Coaching offers a steady place to think clearly, tell the truth, and make choices with care.
My role isn’t to tell you what to do, but to walk alongside you as you make choices that feel grounded and true to you.
Who this is for
You’re exploring non-monogamy or renegotiating relationship agreements
You’re navigating identity shifts or changes in desire
You feel pulled between desire, responsibility, and care for others
You want support without being rushed toward answers
How I work
Collaborative, relational, and grounded in real-world practicality, not ideals
Trauma-informed and non-pathologizing
Rooted in IFS, deep listening, and lived experience
No advice, no pressure — just honest exploration
Focused on clarity, consent, and sustainable choices
What clients are saying
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"Whether I’m talking about my career or my relationships, Jasmin approaches the conversation with presence and care. I felt a strong sense of trust almost immediately because she made me feel so cared for and appreciated. The way she asks questions and guides me toward personal insight often feels completely effortless. Although coaching requires self-work, I always look forward to my calls with Jasmin because they also feel playful. She guides my growth in a way that is joyful. When our sessions are complete I often feel a sense of freedom and a type of relief. Jasmin has helped me work through some of the most challenging aspects of my life. As a result I am experiencing stronger relationships with my closest loved ones and myself. I have a new perspective and new inspiration for the work I want to do. The benefits I have received from my work with Jasmin genuinely cannot be quantified. Working with her has been one of the best decisions I have ever made."
Benjamin
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"Before working with Jasmin, I felt that I was my own worst enemy in my career: if it wasn’t a perfect fit, I got disgruntled and upset easily. I also struggle with imposter syndrome and anxiety. Every time we met, I felt calmer and more in control of my future after talking to her. After each of our sessions, there was always an attainable goal. I now feel like I am kinder and let go of a lot more now that I’ve been able to step back and see what’s really bothering me. She’s really helped me see that introspection is such a useful tool that I wasn’t good at before. I’m happier in my life and in my job now. I love working with Jasmin. I feel so accomplished every time we talk, more energized and ready to kick ass at my career."
Lisa, Digital Marketing & Communications
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"Jasmin has helped me get clarity on what I really want and who I really want to be. After working with her, I had clarity that the career change I thought I wanted was not what I really wanted, and instead I decided to pursue management at my current company. I love my role as a manager and it was absolutely the right choice for me! Jasmin is also very organized, she takes great notes and builds on previous conversations when it makes sense. I love how she helps me come up with tangible action items that I can do at the end of each session; it makes me feel like I can really take steps towards becoming who I want to be. Jasmin is an incredibly kind and empathetic person. She creates such a safe space for expressing myself that I can explore parts of myself that don't normally get airtime. "
Alex, Software Engineer / Manager
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"Jasmin is a sensitive and empathic coach. She seems to have an intuitive sense of what to focus on during sessions, even when I had no idea where to start. A continuous struggle for me is self-confidence--particularly in my creative work. Imposter syndrome rears its ugly head quite often, and my internal critical voices are particularly strong at times, though I feel like I have a lot more tools to deal with these critical parts of my psyche these days thanks to Jasmin's guidance. I have walked away from our time together with an even more powerful sense of self and creative identity, and that has carried over into the work I've been focused on with my musical projects, Waterstrider and Talmirage. I'm forever grateful for my work with Jasmin and I'd recommend her to any sensitive individual who needs some outside guidance to find their best path forward in their lives and careers."
Nate Salman, musician & artist
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"Working with Jasmin, I felt totally safe, seen, and embraced. She helped me find the words for the different facets of my personality. By drawing apart (and naming) the different characters at play in my internal life, I'm able to better balance them. Jasmin helped me see how certain tendencies I have (some of which I went into coaching thinking I needed to change) are actually really helpful when harnessed in the right way."
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“Jasmin held me so gently, yet really challenged me to see the issues clearly in our sessions. She asks questions that make me think — questions I hadn’t considered before. She’s helped me shift my perspective time and time again, and I always feel acknowledged and seen. She’s always so in tune. I never feel like we need to get anywhere and yet I feel like we go where I need to go.”
Michelle T.
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Read Jasmin’s Substack on relationships, parenting, and doing things differently
Off-Script Relationships is my Substack, where I write from lived experience about non-traditional relationships, parenting, and choosing what actually fits.
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